Don’t Always Avoid Conflict

Many couples avoid conflict by keeping their thoughts and feelings to themselves. When this happens, they become so distant, that they have almost nothing to share with one another. If you are feeling distant from your partner, take a small step in communicating your...

Be Aware of Your Behavior

Treat your partner kindly. Many couples are not aware that they speak to each other rudely or harshly: blaming, criticizing, lecturing, scolding. These ways of communicating alienate and distance your partner. Being respectful and kind can go a long way toward...

Building Good Will in Your Relationship

If your partner asks you to do something you don’t especially want to do, take some time to think about your response. If it is not too costly in time and inconvenience, do it because it is important to your partner and builds good will. You may also propose an...