I liked these warning signs by Dr. Phil.
If you or someone you love is unsure about whether you/they are getting into an abusive situation, here are some signs to look for. Please let me know what you think.
How To Spot A Potential Abuser – Dr. Phil
- Excessive and quick commitment to relationships
- Isolation
- Extremely possessive and jealous, confused with love
- Control of all money
- Name-calling and demeaning
- Threats against you, your children or of suicide for failure to comply (emotional extortion)
- Exhibits cruelty to animals or children
- Takes away choices such as good, fashion, social life
- Chauvinistic
- Excessive monitoring
- Dominating time
- Extreme sense of entitlement
- Blames the victim (“They made me do it.”)
- Insecure but presents a false sense of superiority
- Lack of empathy
- Hypersensitivity and victim mentality
- Extreme controlling behavior early on disguised as concern for safety
- Presents dual personalities
- Poor communication skills
- Has unrealistic expectations or demands